The way a man talks, thinks, and processes information is usually through the same
lens that his mother has seen the world, because his mother was his influential
figure. She trained him how to think; she trained him how to handle his business
and developed his communication skills. Since he was a young boy, she was hard
wiring his brain, but most men never really got the opportunity to realize how
messy their mothers were, so he doesn’t know who’s at fault for him turning to be
a bitch ass nigga!
I love my mother, “BUT” she’s messy as fuck! Her being messy affected me
without me even realizing it. I had no clue that I was born a bitch as nigga. Well,
let me tell you exactly what bitch ass nigga traits are so you’ll know:
• Someone very messy
• Emotional
• Petty
• Not responsible
• Talk too much
• Jealous
• Ego Driven
• Always wanting attention
• Clingy
• Looking for Something/someone to follow
Let me tell you how this works. The system is designed to kill off the men, yet it
attacks the women, but the system wants to program the women, not kill them off.
The women represent the birth factory so she is much-needed. Women are highly
spiritual and the system knows this, so it programs women’s belief system in an
awkward way, knowing that she will structure her home based on her beliefs, and
if the man is a threat to those systematic beliefs that she has been programmed to
believe, she will operate her flight-or-fight response and disconnect from the man.
In time, her son will become her husband and she’ll program him with the
information she knows, and that’s the intro of a bitch ass nigga.
The systems main objective is to kill any leadership qualities that may come from
black male children, so the mother is used to make her child docile and hyper
aggressive towards dysfunctional activities. Eventually women seek out men that
can fuck her good, but run away from men that can lead her good. Any man that is
firm and wants to create order in her life, she will resist him, and gravitate to a man
that is a bitch ass nigga, because the bitch ass nigga is impressed by her ass, and
her sexual ability, so he doesn’t challenge her, and this behavior will get passed on
to the child, directly or indirectly. She doesn’t want a man, she wants a toy, to
distract her so she doesn’t have to grow the fuck up.
The system targets the men as well cause men eventually end up dead, or in jail, or
shell-shocked from not being able to lead anyone, so eventually he becomes selfdestructive, and begins to kill himself slowly. Majority of men do not have more
influence over his family than the pastor has, so he is powerless in his home. The
only way he can survive and keep his family together is to let his woman run him,
and see the world through her eyes, while she takes over structuring the household.
It’s easy for him to let her take over cause he was primed to be a bitch ass nigga
because of his first mother, so his second mother (wife) won’t have a hard job
breaking him cause his ass is already broke.
Church is the major component the system uses to program the women. The pastor
pumps fear into the women, and passiveness inside of the male child. The church
operates on the people’s emotions, but not their intellect. The church deals with
irrational behavior making the women and their male child more irrational. He
learns to follow the lead of his mother.
So you got it? Do you know what a B.A.N is now?
Many women were not supposed to have children because many of them are
mentally and emotionally unstable. Many women have been abused, taken
advantage of, confidence stripped, and marginalized before they even hit puberty,
and they never healed from that, so that trauma will get passed on to her son.
My mother was dark skin, and she hated the complexion of her skin. She was also
raped and had an awful relationship with her mother. She had to deal with
abandonment because she ended up going through foster care, and the pain stayed
with her for her whole life, and since the womb is the first teacher, those were my
first lessons. I was born with her history pre-coded in me, so naturally, I was doing
B.A.N s* repeatedly because it was second nature. My father was a goof-ball; he wasn’t around so I can’t blame him for the b.a.n traits I had. All the blame most go to the entity that has the most influence every day. My father’s absence wasn’t stronger than my mother’s presence. Do women have accountability? When I was in prison, I never ran into men that had their father in their life. I’m sure it was some if I talked to everyone, but the majority of guys I spoke to grow up in a single parent household with their mother being the head. All of them had the same traits of emotional instability, and reacted to situations very irrationally. The men that didn’t respond like that, came from mothers that had grandfathers in her life, and he trained her mind, and she passed that to him, so hen it came to problem-solving, those few guys were different from the rest. They used their mind first. The reason it’s so many black men in jail is because of the single mother epidemic. These men were raised by stupid ass women, and you can tell. These men pillow talk, and fight other men over petty shit. These men beat their girlfriends over trivial issues, and have high levels of possessiveness. These men see two women in the street fighting, and instead of stopping their fight, they will take out their phones and record it. These men don’t want power; they want attention, but its not totally their fault, because he operates just like his mother, the same way I did. By the time black men enter adulthood, we are no where near our full potential because we have been raised backwards. There is no rights of passage in our culture, so it’s no system in place to graduate us to manhood. Our mothers raised us up scared, but we are fearless when it comes to doing dumb s*. We have deep
seeded insecurity that we never dealt with, and then we have children of our own
that we weren’t properly trained to handle, so we become fathers without even
being men first.
Women could raise us to be men, if they themselves knew what a man was. A male
and a man is something different. My son is a male, but he isn’t a man because he
doesn’t know how to move in a room full of vultures. He doesn’t know how to go
out into the world and compete. He doesn’t have the inclination to make quick
decisions and snap judgements that will benefit the whole, and no female could
teach him that, but a woman could help him become a man. Men actually graduate
females to women, but all the Men are dead or in jail, and all the women are
stressed the fuck out. All we have left is a bunch of silly ass females and bitch ass
niggaz.
The Game
Many people are confused on the role men play in the lives of women and
children. It’s not just a man’s job to provide food, clothes, and shelter, those
concepts are mainstream. The purpose of a man is to provide intellectual
leadership. Men structure a woman’s brain, and women structure a man’s heart.
These aren’t masculine and feminine qualities, these are species characteristics,
just like it’s a species characteristic for Great White Sharks to smell blood in water.
It cannot help its evolutionary species traits. It is what it is.
Men and women have species traits. Women get periods, whether they like it or
not, and men have testosterone whether he likes it or not, and we all have roles to
play. Roles can be interchangeable however, at our species core, we are what we
are.
Men need to be involved in male children’s lives, but it’s hard because many men
are b.a.ns so a women in her right mind may never even cross a man’s path that’s
on her level. Women that do “GET IT” are usually very much single because it’s
not many qualified men to court her or her child, so she protects her heart from
foolish niggaz, as well as her baby’s heart. So, it’s a double edge sword. Yes,
children need men in their lives, however at what expense? Should women just
work on themselves, and gain information that will push her son forward or should
she look for a man to do that? That’s a hard one.
Here are some solutions to B.A.Ns:
• Women can totally unplug form the matrix. No cable, homeschool your
children, leave the church or find a church that has a minister similar to
Malcolm X, someone that promotes self-esteem and blueprints to power
• Women can find an inmate to be a pen pal with. These men can raise your
son indirectly through letters and phone calls. These men understand order,
structure, and discipline, but most importantly manhood because their harsh
environment requires them to move, and operate a certain way.
• Women can join forces with other single women to form a village mentality.
No one has all the answers, so why do it by yourself? You have being a
woman in common, as well as having songs, so combine your resources, and
motherly instincts for the betterment of the children.
• Women must share Alpha Men. This can only be done by alpha women
though, not weak women. This is important because every Alpha man has a
responsibility that goes behind his family, and the woman he is with must
understand this. Alpha men belong to the world; he is not yours to hoard.
You don’t control him, and you don’t run him, so if you have one, you must
share him, or get with a weaker man that’s on your level. Women that seek
out Alpha men, you must understand that he most likely has some one
already, and your intentions shouldn’t be to step on that woman’s toes. Your
intentions should be to add-on. If this man is truly great, then you must
decide what’s more important to you, your ego, or the influence that he may
transfer to your child.
Find a solution for you that can move your son forward. It may or may not be part
of the list I presented, but there are solutions out there. Don’t be game goofy, and
don’t be a stupid ass woman because it’s so many B.A.Ns, and they aren’t dying;
they are multiplying.
Sincerely,
The Game is Sold, Not Told